Our groups range in size, meeting structure and location, but all value deep connection and the desire to build, organize, and sustain ourselves as we work to bring about love and justice in the world.

Read below for an overview of our community offerings, and contact Elise Tiralli if you’re wondering what small group might be best for you, or want to receive more information.

We are committed to these norms within Middle Church’s community and spaces we hold together:

We listen to understand until the speaker has finished and we do not interrupt

We ask clarifying questions (I’m so glad you share that, do you mind if I ask you a clarifying question)

We do not cross-talk (Thank you for your perspective, here’s my point of view/take on that/I have a different thought  VS I think you are wrong or I disagree or That is so stupid)

We speak for ourselves, not our cohort, our group, or anyone else

We use “I statements” as often as possible. (When I am interrupted I feel frustrated and find it difficult to stay engaged VS You interrupt me and it makes me frustrated)

We keep confidentiality in our groups

We do not make triangles, we say what needs to be said to the person who needs to hear it.

We tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Lying is disrespectful and anti-community. We know there might be more than one truth in a system but we try to tell ours and own it.

We step up and step back to allow all voices to be heard.

Zoom participants will adhere to demonstrating Revolutionary Love at all times. If a participant’s behavior is deemed inappropriate by the meeting host, they will be removed. Inappropriate behavior includes but is not limited to harassment, threats and bigotry of any kind. If you experience behavior that feels inappropriate, we invite you to remind the participant of this covenant and also message the host.